I spied a couple in a coffee shop holding hands who looked to be in their 80’s. Intrigued, I asked how long they’d been married. He piped up: 62 years.

Wow. What’s your secret?

He offered, The night of our honeymoon. I sat her down and said I want to establish right now who the boss is……… You are.

Even if that 60 year old formula might not work quite so well today. I think he was on to something, since he was pretty young to understand humility and cooperation.